Kay’s birth story – the power of having options…

When Kay tells her birth story the word that stands out is “redemptive.”   Her first two experiences were difficult and had left some wounds that had not quite healed.  She came to Natural Beginnings despite the 45 minute drive in order to be heard and to hopefully have a very different experience.

Baby M’s oldest sibling had been born at 38 weeks via induction with Pitocin for pre-eclampsia.  Due to severe itching, a reaction to the epidural, she was given an antihistamine during labor which made her extremely sleepy.  Her labor and even the birth were very much a blur for her.   Immediately postpartum after her baby was taken to the warmer for examination, she began vomiting and was given more medication which caused her to fall asleep.  She awoke later with little memory of the experience and her family members were holding her baby.  She felt very disconnected from the experience.

For her next baby, Kay made an intention to do things differently.  She wanted an unmedicated delivery.   She took classes and did tours at the hospital she had chosen.  She made a birth plan and discussed it with her provider.  She remained healthy during the pregnancy and was very happy that pre-eclampsia was not an issue and she would be able to go into labor on her own.  At 38 weeks, her water broke spontaneously at home.  Within a few hours, good contractions had begun so she made her way to the hospital.  However, a different provider was on call that evening who wasn’t as agreeable to her birth preferences.  Despite making good progress to 6cm dilation in only 5 hours of laboring, the provider made a decision to start her on Pitocin.  Under the impression she was just receiving IV fluids, her labor began to take a painful turn.  She then realized the Pitocin had been started and when she requested it be turned off, she was told that was not an option.  She kept trying to discuss the issue but in between painful contractions she felt she just wasn’t being heard or respected.  Despite not wanting it, she got an epidural.

“My impression was that the nurses just wanted me to get the epidural and be quiet.”

While she was being repaired from a second episiotomy, her baby was taken to the NICU without explanation. She assumed it was just for some routine exams, but over an hour later having already gotten out of bed and showered, she found herself pacing her hospital room waiting for her baby.  Her husband went to try to find answers.  Finally someone came in and explained that her baby had aspirated some amniotic fluid.  By the time she saw her baby the first time it was amidst a sea of IV lines and other things that made it difficult to hold the baby.

At NBBC, one of Kay’s first and foremost desires after an unmedicated birth was not to be separated from her baby unless absolutely necessary and have the benefit of skin to skin contact.  Another was to avoid Pitocin.  The plan was to deliver at the birth center, however that option did not work out.  Kay was very thankful that with Natural Beginnings she had OPTIONS!

With this pregnancy, Kay had some new experiences.  The first was going to 40 weeks of pregnancy.  In the past, both of her babies had been born in the 38th week.  The other  very different experience for her was prodromal labor.    The stop and start contractions that were not dilating the cervix had begun to cause fatigue and discouragement over the span of days.  Midwife Nicole encouraged her through a hard night of painful contractions on a Saturday night and had prescribed an OTC medication to help with sleep.  She was finally able to get a little bit of rest but she was feeling worn down and physically uncomfortable.  Christmas was just a few days away and the thought of possibly still being pregnant and having prodromal labor was causing a lot of emotional stress.  Nicole explained to Kay that she had the option to be induced if she wanted.  And after much thought, she decided to show up at the hospital Monday morning to be induced.  The risks and benefits were explained to her so that she could make an informed decision.  She felt confident that this time she would be heard and respected and that made all the difference.  She was very thankful to be able to choose the hospital option and still keep her same care providers.

She arrived for her induction at  Davis Regional Medical Center on Monday morning where she was given a cervical ripening medication.  She was able to eat breakfast and shortly thereafter contractions began, but they weren’t terribly painful or unbearable.

Around noon she was able to enjoy some lunch and Midwife Marcia came to check her progress.  She was 4cm and ready for the next step.  After discussing the options, Marcia performed AROM(artificial rupture of membranes) because she wanted to respect Kay’s desire to avoid Pitocin.  After this, contractions began to intensify almost immediately.

Around 1:15pm Kay began to experience back pain and she was able to get into the tub while being monitored with waterproof, wireless fetal heart rate monitors.  Kay always thought she would love the water but it just didn’t feel right.  She could tell that her body was making significant and fast progress because of the intensity that she was feeling.  She was also feeling some pressure like she needed to have a bowel movement so she got out of the tub and sat on the toilet.  She found that this position relieved her back pain. The ability  to move and get into a comfortable position during labor was crucial to her achieving her desire to avoid the epidural.

Around 2:30pm Marcia checked her and she was 8cm.  At this point she stayed and helped move Kay into more naturally comfortable positions for the transition phase of labor.  Very soon after that she began pushing and baby M arrived.  Kay spoke about that moment:

It was the most amazing experience of my life.  They went by everything I had on my birth plan.  I didn’t want her taken from me after she was born unless there was something wrong.  And they didn’t touch her.  The nurses didn’t touch her -nobody touched her-and it was the most amazing experience to look down and have her with me after carrying her for nine months”

NBBC acknowledges the benefits of immediate contact for mom and baby at birth and unless complications prevent it, the midwives encourage mother/baby bonding especially in the first hour.

“It was so amazing to have those first moments with her because I missed out on that with my other two.”

Kay feels that this experience was very redemptive.  Even with making the change in her birth plan from birth center to hospital, having providers who she knew would listen to her made that transition much easier and significantly less stressful.  Kay also spoke about her recovery:

“It went so good.  I didn’t tear.  I didn’t have to have an episiotomy.  They[prior care provider] cut me with both of my other babies.  They cut me.  My son was 7lbs 11oz and my other daughter was 8lbs 5oz.  This baby was 9lbs 2oz and I didn’t tear and they didn’t have to cut me because they let me labor the way that I felt I needed to and I feel like that made all the difference.  So my recovery was nothing compared to the other two.”

The ability to easily get up and shower and move around made for a much easier beginning for her and Baby M.  She was able to be present to her baby instead of focusing on her pain or recovering from medications.  This was exactly what she had hoped for.  She hadn’t been starved.  She was allowed to eat during labor and then had the baby just in time for dinner so she felt nourished and had good energy.   All of these factors made for a blissful postpartum experience and set her up for breastfeeding success.

Kay shared her experience with the midwives and the hospital:

“They are extremely great advocates for their mothers.  To have these amazing women around you – you get your power back.  Davis Regional is a very different hospital. They were on board.  That was important.”





Samantha’s birth story – first unmedicated birth

Samantha described her first birth as beautiful in many ways but she also felt that she experienced a “downward spiral of interventions.”  Like many moms, she wanted something different for this birth, but having had an epidural before, she wondered if she would be able to handle the pain.  Her first birth experience left her with doubts about her body’s ability to birth without medication and intervention.  But it was the night of Panthers vs. Cardinals and victory was in the air!

Her labor began around 1am.  Because of the snow and ice, Samantha , her husband Joe and their family 12674445_1200833829929978_1455682897_ndecided to make their way to Natural Beginnings around 3:30am.  Upon arrival, it was determined she wasn’t quite in active labor yet so they got a hotel close by where she went to continue to labor and try to get some rest.  With the snow and ice still on the roads in many places, it felt good to be nearby.   Her daughter, L, had been to every prenatal appointment and was excited that is was getting closer to time to meet her little sister.

Samantha labored at the hotel throughout the day.  Things began to turn the corner a little bit by 12pm.  By 3pm, contractions had intensified and by 6pm, she was ready to return to the center.  At that time she was 5 centimeters and on the way to active labor.  She walked the halls for a while trying to let gravity work in her favor, but she was becoming fatigued after having been up all night the night before.

Sometimes decisions have to be made when fatigue becomes a factor in birth, especially if someone is hoping to labor without any pain medication.  Fatigue can cause the body to slow down and labor to stall.  It can intensify a woman’s perception of pain and leave her with limited coping capabilities.  Everyone’s body reacts to it differently.  When we hear a mom begin to express feelings of extreme fatigue and outward signs do not indicate that the birth is on the horizon, we will discuss options with clients to make sure they know their options and can make an informed decision about their labor journey.  Samantha did not feel good about possibly laboring well into the night without any rest.  She was already really feeling the effects of losing a nights sleep to contractions. Her contractions were too strong to sleep through but not strong enough to see the end in sight.  So around 9:30pm after discussing risks and benefits with Tracie, she opted to haver her water broken (AROM – artificial rupture of membranes).  Breaking the water during labor can sometimes help the baby to drop down some allowing more pressure from the baby’s head to open the cervix.  Some of the risks of AROM during labor are:

  • Baby may not position him/herself well once amniotic fluid is reduced
  • Risk of infection increases especially if labor is long
  • The umbilical cord can become compressed and the baby’s heart rate can drop necessitating quick transport
  • Contractions can become more painful

Samantha was in tune to her body and felt strongly that AROM would help her progress.  We try to always honor mom’s intuition and desires in labor.  She and Joe also had a support team that was incredible.  Her family surrounded her with love and physical and emotional comfort.  Her mother and mother-in-law helped with Big Sister L and cheered Samantha on, and her father lovingly gave emotional support all while capturing some of the most precious moments of this family’s journey on video.  Her aunt photographed from a perspective that only someone who really loves you can…..telling a story while being a crucial part of the story.

Shortly after having her water broken, Samantha’s husband came to tell Tracie that contractions were increasing in strength and frequency.   We began to fill the pool at this time.  The next time we came in the room, we found her in the bathroom with that feeling of pressure that just won’t go away so we knew the birth was close.  We encouraged her to head toward the pool before she got to the point that she couldn’t move.

The next contraction brought her to her knees.

The water offered some sweet relief and big sister L decided to join mom in the pool along with her mermaid doll.  She was such a sweet encouragement to her mom as the first pushing contraction began.  Samantha described the feeling of pushing for the first time without an epidural:

Pushing without an epidural, was easier in the sense that I could feel everything. I could feel exactly where she was and I could feel when my body was telling me to push, I knew what I needed to do next and that was so empowering compared to being told when to push and when her head was out during my first birth with epidural. The epidural meant that I needed help, that my body needed help, without it I could do it, my body could do it.

Baby A swam into her mom’s waiting hands after only a few pushing contractions.

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Samantha felt an immediate wave of relief and pure love which is evident on her face.  She12647877_1200824226597605_1009618922_n and her husband embraced each other and wept.  But it was the reaction of big sister L that floored us all.  She began to exclaim as she touched the fingers of her new baby sister, “I’m so glad she’s finally here!  Mommy, you did it!  You pushed her out.”  This prompted almost everyone in the room to burst into happy tears.


Big sister L could be heard over and over again over the next hour saying, “I just love her so much.”   She had witnessed something amazing and natural and we hope that she will remember the beauty and positivity of that moment when she is older and having her own first baby.  And we hope it will be with us!









Questions during your pregnancy or birth? Use your B.R.A.I.N.(E.D.)

Informed decision making is an important part of an atmosphere of empowerment in pregnancy and birth.  Good communication with your provider is paramount to the process.  Here at Natural Beginnings Birth Center, we strive for open and honest communication with all of our patients.  We do our best for have the information that you need readily available for you in any decisions we discuss with you.  But as much as we wish we could, we can’t read minds and don’t always cover all the information that each person needs.  For this reason, we encourage our patients to use this model of questions for communicating with us about ANY procedure, medication, treatment plan or intervention.  If you are not completely clear on why we are making a suggestion or implementing a treatment, do not hesitate to ask for more information.  Here is a helpful tool for formulating questions:

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Sometimes the amount of information that is available is overwhelming, especially on the internet.  For doing your own research, we suggest the following websites:

Lamaze for parents

Giving Birth With Confidence

Evidence Based Birth

American Pregnancy Association

Childbirth Connection

We also encourage you to bring a list of questions to each appointment.  It is easy to forget what you wanted to ask once you are in our office.

We want all of our patients to feel fully informed and empowered.  We desire for you to know all of your options and to make decisions WITH you during pregnancy and birth.  Good communication with you is one of our top priorities.

We look forward to serving you and your family!


Meet NBBC Lactation Consultant, Ashley!

Here at NBBC, we want to support breastfeeding success.  To help with this, we have made Ashley Petronzio part of our support team.   We know that she will be a great asset to our practice and to our patients.


Ashley is originally from Pittsburgh, PA.  She has been married for 12 years and has 6 children ages 12, 10, 8, 6, 4 and 2.  She received a BA from Virginia Tech and is an IBCLC.  On top of all that, she is currently pursuing her nursing degree!  Being a busy wife, mom, student and lactation consultant, she doesn’t have a lot of time for hobbies but right now she is enjoying training for triathlons.


Ashley talked with us about her own experiences with breastfeeding and how this inspired her to want to help others.


I had no issues breastfeeding my first baby, he latched right away and we went on to have an awesome experience for the next 15 months, including breastfeeding into my next pregnancy. With my second baby we really struggled with breastfeeding from day one. Latch issues, thrush, mastitis, lots of tears (both mine and hers). At one point my husband came home from work and I asked for a bottle, because I had been trying for the last 45 minutes to get her to latch. I vividly remember him saying “You don’t really want to do that, do you?”

After we worked out all of our issues it wasn’t enjoyable anymore and she never really seemed all that excited about it. We made it to 13 months. I found out about a month before that there were lactation consultants and I could have gotten help with all of my struggles! I knew right then I wanted to be one and all the pieces to do that literally fell into my lap. It was a sign! That was fall of 2006 and I’ve never looked back!

Ashley met Marcia as a patient years ago when Marcia was still working with Dr. Peacock.IMG_2822  After having a few successful VBACs(vaginal birth after cesarean), she became interested in midwifery and eventually became a birth assistant at NBBC so providing our patient’s with lactation support is a seamless transition for everyone.  She’s a natural fit in our community.

Ashley will see patients in our office by appointment 2 mornings a week.  We will add more time for her to see patients if there is a demand.  Each consult will include a thorough assessment of a feeding(for both mom and baby) and a breastmilk intake weight. She will also offer prenatal assessments for new moms and/or moms who have had past breastfeeding issues if needed to address questions or concerns and provide educational support.

When asked what she wishes every woman knew about breastfeeding, she replied,

I wish women knew how easy breastfeeding CAN be. There are so many obstacles to successful breastfeeding but even more support available to help! Women shouldn’t feel bad because it’s not the wonderful picture they had envisioned or not reach out for help because they think they’re doing it all wrong. Just ask for help. The payoff for the sleepless nights is totally worth it.

Ashley feels that for many women, breastfeeding has become very complicated.  She hopes to help women navigate their breastfeeding issues with the goal of being able to return to the simplicity of the breastfeeding relationship.  Like birth, we as a society have introduced many interventions into breastfeeding and she would like to help women find a way to resolve their issues yet not feel overwhelmed.

Ashley has some tips for new moms wanting to breastfeed successfully:

  • Limit the visitors in the first hour after birth
  •  Rest, rest, rest…I can’t say that enough.
  • Turn off the TV, phone, computer……whatever  is stimulating you and your baby too much.  Climb into bed and nurse your baby.   Sleep, eat/drink, nurse your baby, sleep, eat/drink…you get the picture.
  • Seek help from a well intentioned support person that truly has your ideals and goals in mind when you start to doubt yourself or your baby.
  • Avoid seeking solutions to breastfeeding issues on the internet.

Welcome Ashley to our amazing team!  Please call the office to ask about scheduling a time to meet with Ashley to address your questions or concerns about breastfeeding.  You can also “like” our Natural Beginnings Lactation page on Facebook!


Preparing for your birth……

The midwives at Natural Beginnings Birth Center  believe in education and informed decision making.  Many people ask us what resources we recommend for pregnancy information and birth preparation so we thought we would compile a few here on our blog.  Most of these books are helpful even if you are not planning an unmedicated birth.  We encourage all expecting moms to have a basic knowledge of labor and birth and some coping measures just in case pain relief isn’t immediately available.  We also encourage partner preparation!


The Business of Being Bornborn
**This movie can be viewed with a Netflix subscription or rented on Amazon Video.


 Ina May Gaskin


Barbara Harper

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**Barbara Harper is a water birth expert and teaches water birth practice world wide.  We are fortunate to have been able to train with her when we opened NBBC.


Sarah Buckley

Gentle-Birth-Gentle-Mother-bookGentle Birth, Gentle Mothering:A Doctor’s Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices**Sarah Buckley is a physician in Australia who has studied natural birth practices from many different points of view.  She encourages informed decision making in all choices regarding birth and early parenting.

Penny Simkin


Amber’s Birth Story – an empowering transport

Amber’s story is an example of what a non-emergent transport can look like with a planned birth center birth.  Here at NBBC, the most common reason for transport is maternal exhaustion after slow progress in labor.  This can happen after a long labor where mom has been unable to sleep for an extended amount of time.  This story is an example of  how our care continues if you need to transport from birth center to hospital.


May 28

My due date had come and gone (May 23) and I was content in knowing that our little boy was safe, healthy and still tucked away inside of the safest place on earth. As much as I was over the back and hip aches, heart burn, constant exhaustion and frequent bathroom trips, I truly enjoyed my 10154174_10152116673907909_2082089592_npregnancy and I was soaking in as much as I could the last few days of it. Every little kick and movement shared just between my baby and I was priceless and savored as I knew the journey of pregnancy was ending and the unknown adventure of motherhood was soon to begin.  My husband and I did everything that we possibly could in preparing for the birth of our first child. We attended 12 weeks of Bradley method classes, went through books, watched countless videos and documentaries on the natural birth process and we chose a birth center with midwives to deliver E at. I felt empowered, encouraged and educated throughout my entire pregnancy as I surrounded myself with an incredible birth team!

At around 10:30 AM on Wednesday morning, I got out of bed to make breakfast and felt a significant gush of fluid. I immediately thought “DID MY WATER JUST BREAK?” 

About 10 percent of women will experience spontaneous rupture of membranes(SROM) before contractions begin. At NBBC, the midwife remains in contact with patients when this happens to monitor progress and make sure no symptoms of infection or complications are present.  For most women, labor will begin spontaneously within 24 hours.  For patients who are GBS negative, we wait up to 72 hours for labor to begin spontaneously.

I went about my business of bed-making, breakfast eating and experienced a sudden burst of energy which made me start cleaning like a mad person. I was scrubbing floors, walls, counter tops and making sure my birth center bag was packed with everything I needed (even though I had packed it 3 weeks prior), our birth plan was typed neatly and I ensured that we had 1461067_10152116674757909_810978695_nmultiple copies JUST IN CASE today happened to be BIRTH day. Soon after my cleaning craze began, I felt another gush of fluid.  I tested positive for GBS (group b streptococcus) during my pregnancy which is a bacteria found in about 25% of healthy, adult women and can be passed to the baby through delivery.  So at At 1:20 PM, Ben and I packed our birth bag and birth essentials and started off to Natural Beginnings Birth Center.  I was having minor contractions that were spread out, I could talk through them and I was all smiles so it was very apparent that we were in the early 1st stage of labor. We stopped and grabbed a bite on the way and I was chugging water like a champ! I kept remembering the “eat, drink, sleep, shower and walk” routine and I was definitely killing the eat and drink portion!

About 1 in 4 women test positive for Group B Strep during pregnancy.    We also offer the option of receiving antibiotics at our birth center for those who desire it.  Amber was able to come and and receive a dose of antibiotics, then go back home to eat, stay hydrated, rest and wait for labor to begin.  The midwives at NBBC encourage eating and hydrating in labor!  In order to follow birth center protocol, labor must begin within 24  hours of membranes rupturing in GBS positive patients to avoid transport so we also gave Amber some information on alternative ways to stimulate labor to try if she wanted to do that.  Amber’s contractions began soon after she got back home and she chose some alternative ways to augment her contractions to encourage more active labor to begin.

 I labored on our birth ball some, laid down to rest and walked a little bit. I lost more of my (mucous)plug soon after. I was feeling more tired at this point and my contractions were becoming a little more frequent (3-4 mins apart) and I just KNEW I was approaching “active labor” and that I HAD to be dilating.

 At 10:00 PM, Ben and I left our house to go back to the birth center for my second round of antibiotics as I had to have them administered every 8 hours during labor. We decided that instead of coming back home if I was not in “active labor that we would get a hotel room in Statesville to be close. I was hoping that I was at least 4-5 cm dilated and that I could just stay and labor at the birth center. I had to be. 

We arrived at Natural Beginnings at 10:50 PM and they began the second dose of IV antibiotics and my midwife checked my cervix. I was only 1 cm dilated. I was starting to feel really discouraged at this point, my contractions were still intensifying and I felt a lot of pressure in my pelvis. How could I only be ONE CENTIMETER?

Dilation is as unique as the woman in labor.  Sometimes contractions are strong but dilation is slow.  We do not know all of the reasons for this.  Sometimes it is the baby trying to find just the right position which is why we encourage mobility combined with resting positions that keep the pelvis open.  The most important thing to do during this time as long as vitals are normal and baby sounds good is to stay hydrated, nourished and well rested.  We are happy to have a relationship with local hotels who will give parents a discount if they wish to do this but also remain close by.  Not admitting a patient to the birth center until they are in an active labor pattern reduces the chance of transport.

May 29

Nicole (my midwife) was super sweet and encouraging and told us to go to the Holiday Inn Express nearby and tell them we were laboring and they would give us a discount. She told us to call her and keep her updated. We left the birth center and arrived at about 12:00 AM. At this point, I was unable to talk through my contractions, I was VERY focused, serious and did lots of moaning and groaning to get though each one. I tried to lay on my side but was very uncomfortable so I got on the birth ball on the edge of the bed and pretty much stayed there ALL night. My contractions were about 2-3 mins apart and were lasting 60-90 seconds. I was feeling exhausted and just kept wanting to sleep but there was no way I could sleep through them. Ben put pressure on my back, squeezed my hips and coached me beautifully through each one. We had an app on his phone to monitor them and he talked me through every one. He was so encouraging and kept telling me how amazing I was doing and how exciting it was that we were going to be holding our baby so soon!

We ended up leaving the hotel at around 5:50 AM to go back to the birth center. I could barely walk out of the room and found myself stopping in the halls and lobby to moan and get through the contractions. I know people were looking at me funny but I didn’t care AT ALL. Ben helped me into the car and we started back to the birth center. I just knew that this was active labor and that we would be staying there! We arrived and Nicole started the IV drip and checked me and I was only TWO cm dilated. At this point, I don’t even think discouragement is the right word to describe how I felt. I was utterly disappointed and so upset. I cried and kept asking “is my body broken?”. I was so sad because I knew that this meant my beautiful water birth experience was not going to happen as we would have to go to the hospital and they would start pitocin soon. 

It is never easy for us to have the transport discussion with a patient that we know strongly desired and prepared for a birth center birth.  We understand the disappointment that comes with a change in birth plan/vision.  We do our best to give strong emotional support at that point then make the transition to the hospital as seamless as possible.  We typically go to the hospital at the same time as the patient and help them get settled and comfortable.  We continue to manage care for our patients at Davis Regional Medical Center where the staff is sensitive to the needs of patients who are transported.  It is hard to watch your vision of your birth change, but we hope our continued presence throughout the process can provide the consistency needed to help a mom through such an emotional time.

The ride there felt like an eternal mile and a half. My husband was so precious and kept encouraging me and telling me how proud he was of me and that soon I would have our perfect baby in my arms. We arrived at Davis Regional Medical Center at 7:30 AM and I could still barely walk and talk but I made it to the room and we got settled in. They started the pitocin drip at 8:45 AM and man oh man, did things REALLY start to intensify.

Ben and Nicole were excellent at talking me through them. They kept saying “that is one more(contraction) you don’t have to have and one closer to having your baby!”. Some were 1 min apart and others were 30-45 seconds apart. At 10:30 AM, I got in the tub to labor. The water was my friend. I wanted to stay there. I got an urge to push and they made me get out. I started to labor on the birth ball again and my midwife put heat and counter pressure on my lower back during contractions and it definitely helped! I got back into the tub at around 11:45 PM and got another urge to push. I remember wanting to just stay in the water so bad and I was so upset that they kept making me get out when I wanted to push! 

My midwife arrived at at 12:50 PM and she checked me and informed me that I was actually only 3 cm. Hello, Natural Alignment Plateau. Within the Bradley Method, we learned of this. It is sometime during labor when there is a ‘stall’ in cervical dilation. Sometimes this occurs just before transition, but can happen at any time when it looks like nothing is happening! 

I am SO thankful that Ben and I educated ourselves and that we had a midwife who was PATIENT, believed in natural birth, encouraging and allowed me to continue to labor. Also, dilation is measured differently by most everyone. It is so tricky to gauge true dilation. I won’t lie to you and say that I didn’t feel discouraged and totally defeated at this point in my labor. Again, I can’t say enough how tremendous my husband was during this phase. He knew what was happening and he kept reminding me that my body was doing what it needed to do for me and for the baby and that I was a champ. These words and reminders were powerful to me during this stage.


In the absence of abnormalities, we understand that labor can be tricky and unpredictable and we do our best to allow time for the process to unfold.  We help by suggesting position changes and other comfort measure to help encourage progress and cervical change.   We are happy that at Davis Regional Medical Center, we have access to wireless, waterproof fetal monitors.  Hydrotherapy can be very helpful to moms having long labors and can provide welcome relief especially when progress is slow.  Sometimes, at this point, pain relief through epidural or narcotics can also provide much needed rest and that is also available.  But Amber had been able to eat and hydrate well during her labor which we encourage so she was able to keep going.

My midwife suggested that I start trying some other positions and let gravity work with me. From 1:00 PM- 2:00 PM, I labored in many different positions such as hands and knees, the birth ball, squatting, side lying. At this point, I started to majorly doubt myself. I started saying things like “I can’t do this anymore”, “I need relief” and “I think I want the epidural now”. I was crying and really started wanting drugs at this point. Ben and Nicole kept talking me through each contraction and were so sweet and supportive.

 At 2:00 PM I asked to get into the tub again and after about 15 minutes, I felt an overwhelming urge to push. I couldn’t not push. It was impossible. This baby was coming whether I was 10 cm or not! I knew it. The pressure was intense and the urge would not subside. I got out of the tub at 2:15 PM and sat on the toilet. This is when I hit transition. It was intense. I was shaking, throwing up and crying. Nicole and Ben kept saying, “remember this is the shortest part- you’re doing amazing!”. It felt like I couldn’t go on. Where was I going to find the energy to push? Nicole had me get on hands and knees on the bed again and I pushed a couple of times. I had an intense need to bear down through each contraction. I stayed on hands and knees for about 15 mins and then I wanted to change to the classic pushing position (sitting up with knees back). This detail is funny to me because during our labor rehearsals, I thought for sure I would HATE that position for pushing but sure enough, it’s what I wanted. I started pushing in classic position at 2:45 and pushed through each contraction for a little over an hour. My pushing contractions were way more spread out and I was talking, joking and laughing through them. When they came though, I HAD to push with my body. I remember wanting to groan really loud when I pushed but my midwife kept telling me to focus all of my energy on pushing. She massaged my perineum with oil between and during my pushes to keep me from tearing. I remember feeling the “ring of fire” as the head was bbbbbghcrowning and they kept saying “He has hair!”. This was so motivating to me, I wanted my baby in my arms. I pushed through the burning a few times and at 3:56 PM on May 29, 2014, E was born! They placed him on my chest immediately and the most overwhelming sense of joy, love, relief, excitement, happiness and pure peace came crashing over me. Never in my life have I experienced a rush like that. Ben and I couldn’t take our eyes off of him as he nuzzled into me and let out the most precious cries I have ever heard in my life.

Sometimes a mom will make quick change after what seems to be a long time of “failure to progress.”  We monitor mom and baby closely and dialogue with parents about their wishes and desires during long, difficult labors.   We make every effort to work with parents wishes when it is within the realm of safety to do so.  We do not have set time limits or standard protocols pertaining to length of labor.  It is a continuous discussion and interaction between us and our patients and we determine together what is the best path for mom and for baby.  We do believe that a moms experience of her labor has value and influences breastfeeding, postpartum healing and postpartum emotions so we do our best to focus on a healthy baby AND a healthy mom…..physically and emotionally.

We did it! We had birthed our baby as a team and I was so shocked and in disbelief that I made it through without ANY pain meds. I felt like I could literally do ANYTHING. The moments after his birth were precious and I will never forget how amazing the skin-to-skin contact and the first time breastfeeding was. It was surely love at first sight- this child whom we had prayed for, prepared for and had already grown to love on the inside came into our world and radically changed our lives in an instant. We were a family.

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 If this experience taught me anything at all, it surely was a beautiful lesson in trust. Trusting the Lord, my husband, my midwife, my body and my baby. I realized that my “plans” were surely secondary and I learned to “roll with the punches” per se. We didn’t get to have the water birth at a birth center that we so desired and planned for but our birth story is beautiful in every way, filled with adventure and is a journey that I would absolutely change nothing about.

We are so excited that Amber is expecting AGAIN.  E will enjoy being a big brother and we will try to share her next journey with you too!

NBBC word for 2016 – OPTIONS

It’s a new year at Natural Beginnings Birth Center and we are looking forward to everything that 2016 has to offer.  We are honored to serve the women of our community in the various aspects of their lives and we “resolve” in 2016 to continue to work to provide the platinum standard of care for our patients.

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Natural Beginnings Birth & Wellness Center Provides holistic individualized gynecological care throughout the life, maternity care, mother-baby wellness education and a family centered, supportive environment for birth.


We feel that one of the most valuable things that we do for our patients is offer them OPTIONS.  At NBBC, we consider ourselves to be in a continuous and compassionate partnership with you.  This means that you play a major role in the decisions regarding your care.  We want all of our patients to feel that they are making informed decisions so we have a strong focus on education and evidence based information.  Along with that, we respect your experience and your knowledge.  We know that many of our patients have done extensive research before they come to us.  Many of them have had experiences in the past  with medical care that they felt were not empowering to them and they are looking for something different.  We look at each woman as an individual and seek to find OPTIONS and solutions that fit her particular needs.


  • Watchful waiting and non-intervention in normal processes
  • Appropriate use of interventions and technology for current or potential health problems
  • Consultation, collaboration and referral with other members of healthcare team as needed to provide optimal healthcare

We feel that one of the most valuable things that we offer to our patients is OPTIONS.-2

We want women to know that we are proud to offer OPTIONS that fit a variety of scenarios.  We believe that women should be active participants in their decisions regarding their care. Here are some examples of what having OPTIONS looks like in our practice:

  • a natural, unmedicated birth without interventions in our birth center or in the hospital
  • waterbirth in our birth center
  • elective induction if desired after reviewing risks and benefits
  • the availability of the midwifery model of care even in many pregnancies that are labeled “high risk”
  •  an empowering birth with an epidural or narcotic pain relief
  • wireless, waterproof monitoring in the hospital to support movement and hydrotherapy(laboring in a tub or shower) during labor
  • support and encouragement for many women desiring vaginal birth after cesarean(VBAC) – current VBAC success rate is 87%
  • several different methods of induction including a Cook Catheter 
  • IV antibiotics for Group B Strep when birthing at the birth center as well as the hospital
  • smooth transition to the hospital from the birth center if necessary without having to change providers
  • encouragement to have family or doula support during the birth process if desired
  • breastfeeding and lactation resources
  • referrals to a variety of professionals and professional services
  • and many, many more!!!!

Call us today with any questions you may have about the options available to you through NBBC.  You can also visit us at http://www.naturalbeginningsnc.com or attend our next Meet The Midwives event.

We wish everyone an abundant and prosperous 2016!